The Third Degree

Finishing School for submissives

The Opportunity

The first degree is discovering you’re kinky. The second is realizing you’re submissive. The Third Degree is submitting yourself to instruction, correction, testing, and scrutiny — to become a more confident, capable, and desirable candidate for FemDom play, dynamics, or total ownership.

  • Have you ever wondered if you can go deeper?

  • Do you know what kind of submissive you are — and what you have to offer?

  • Do you know how to approach, behave, serve, and respond to real FemDoms with specific expectations?

  • Do you hope to one day be truly owned?

The Third Degree is your chance to find out.

Knowing yourself is the key to opening doors and creating the life you want. Scrolling, swiping, and liking photos isn't enough to build your repertoire or understand your submissive potential.

This program is for submissives who seek real self-knowledge — whether that’s for more connected and gratifying play, or because you’re ready to pursue a serious FLR / 24/7 D/s dynamic.

With my help, you can become a submissive Dommes will desire — someone who no longer has to keep it a fantasy.

Open to all genders. This program is FemDom-led and structured around serving a FemDom — it is not geared toward serving male Doms.

The Evaluation

The Third Degree begins with a private consultation to determine if you are a fit for finishing school.

Every prospective student-submissive begins with a 30-minute private video consultation. This is our opportunity to get acquainted, discuss what you’re looking for, and determine whether we want to move forward with enrollment.

30-minute private video consultation — $60


This is a standalone, non-refundable screening step, separate from program pricing. Upon enrollment, the first program payment secures a place and the intake form is sent to begin Phase 1.

The Experience

In The Third Degree, you’ll spend four months under my guidance, with private instruction, observation, practice, and refinement.

  • 1:1 private in-person sessions

  • Weekly video check-ins

  • Evaluation reports

  • Field Trips

  • Homework assignments

  • Consulting on appearance & hygiene

  • Profile & persona building

  • Final letter of recommendation

Requirement: student-submissives must have their own collar with a front-facing ring before the program begins.

The Curriculum

The Third Degree provides a deliberate progression through assessment, discipline, practice, and graduation.

  • Goal: Establish a baseline.

    • Intake & scheduling

    • In-person assessment session (90 min)

    • Field trip (first real-world test)

    • Evaluation report

    Duration: 1 month

  • Goal: Build consistent habits and structure.

    • Weekly video check-ins (frequency varies month to month)

    • Program customization

    • Personalized homework assignments

    • In-person session (90 min)

    • Field trip

    Duration: 1 month

  • Goal: Apply what’s been built under real conditions, including outside evaluation.

    • Weekly video check-ins (frequency varies month to month)

    • Personalized homework assignments

    • Service placement — student-submissive is sent to a FemDom selected by me

    • In-person session (90 min)

    • Field trip

    Duration: 1 month

  • Goal: Final evaluation and readiness.

    • Personalized homework assignments

    • Tea party — FemDom evaluation

    • Final in-person session (90 min)

    • Evaluation report

    • Letter of recommendation

    Duration: 1 month

Tuition & Expenses

The Third Degree consists of four one-month phases to be completed within 6 months.

Standard tuition
$2,800

Standard tuition may be paid in 2 installments

Discounted tuition
$2,520

10% discount when tuition is paid in full

Additional Expenses

Some parts of the program involve out-of-pocket costs that students cover directly, on top of tuition:

Field trips
Depending on the outing, this may mean a ticket purchase, a meal, or a shopping trip.

Outsourced service placement tribute
A small gift for the host FemDom advised beforehand (Phase 3).

Tea party
Student-submissive covers food expenses for what they cook and/or bring already prepared (Phase 4).

App subscription
Approximately $7 per month paid directly by the student-submissive for their customized program.

Confidentiality

Participation in The Third Degree is handled with absolute discretion in both directions. I will protect your privacy, and I expect the same regarding the program, my process, and its participants. Upon completion, you will receive an honest evaluation and recommendation that serves as a reference for interested parties.

The First Step

Schedule your private, 30-minute consultation to determine if you are a fit for The Third Degree.

Book your private consultation